To
find out about others perspectives on diversity and culture I interviewed three
people. I interviewed a seventeen year
old African American boy, a 41 year old African American man and a 35 year old
African American and Pilipino woman. I
spoke with three people that I thought were a little different than
myself. When I asked all three about
what culture meant to them they provided similar definitions. The teenager
named Mo, defined culture as “the stuff people did and lived by like
traditions” (personal communication, March 20, 2015). The 41 year old man,
Dominic defined culture as “the environment or surroundings that your parents
grew up with then pass on to their children such as traditions” (personal
communication, March 20, 2015). Lastly,
the 35 year old woman, Dariah defined culture as “peoples beliefs or
backgrounds such as religion and traditions” (personal communication, March,
20, 2015). All three had similar
definitions of culture which included traditions. In the multimedia segment, Family cultures: Dynamic
interactions, according to Louis
Derman-Sparks, “family culture are their beliefs, goals for their children and
parenting (Laureate Education, 2011).
I also asked for their definition of diversity. Mo, defined diversity as “being excepting of
different cultures, religions, and ethnicity” (personal communication, March, 20, 2015).
Dominic, defined diversity as “an accumulation of people and cultures existing
in one environment” (personal
communication, March, 20, 2015). Lastly,
Dariah defined diversity as “a mixture of different cultures, beliefs, genders
and nationalities” (personal communication, March 20, 2015). All three believed that diversity included
many cultures. Two believed that
diversity included different beliefs including nationality or ethnicity. According to Harris (2008) … “one could
identify diverse families via categories of race or ethnicity, region or
nationality, class, sexual orientation, or religion” (p. 1411).
In the multimedia
segment, Family
cultures: Dynamic interactions, Louise Derman-Sparks defined culture in two categories to include family and
dominate culture. She defined dominate
culture as a cultural group where political and economics help determine the
way of the world. Dominate culture
decides who has the power based on areas such as class and ethnicity (Laureate
Education, 2011). The individuals I
interviewed mentioned family cultures however, dominate culture was omitted
from their definition. When I
interviewed Dariah she provided the most diverse examples of growing up in two
cultures due to being both African American and Pilipino. She shared how growing up in Pilipino with a
catholic background prevented her to date.
This changed however, when she moved to America at age sixteen. She was in “culture shock” when she saw boys
and girls dancing close to one another at a school dance. This was not allowed in the Philippines.
Dariah shared that she was
raised by her grandmother in the Philippines following the Pilipino culture. When she came to America to live with her
mother at sixteen she wanted to learn more about African Americans. Dariah said this was important to her because
she felt disconnected from her African American culture. She chose to go to a predominately black
college in order to learn more about African Americans. Dariah had entered a dominate culture of
predominately African American students.
She shared a story about her roommate who had really long hair and one
day she saw her remove her hair and was shocked. Her roommate shared that she was wearing
“tracks”, hair extensions. Dariah stated
that she thought her roommate would be offended by her response, however, she
entertained Dariah by providing an explanation about African American
hair. Dariah shared that even though she
went to a school that was predominately black she felt like she never really
fit in (personal conversation, March 20, 2015).
According to Derman-Sparks & Edwards (2010) “children experience cultural
discontinuity, especially if the program considers its way “right” and others’ “wrong”
(p. 59). From my conversation with
Dariah I realized that she experienced cultural discontinuity between her African
American ethnic group. She realized she
was different because she was half Pilipino and African American, however, longed
to also fit in with African Americans.
She was aware that her upbringing in the Philippines was very different
than what she was experiencing in American.
In conclusion, I learned that everyone has their own
definition of what culture and diversity mean to them. I saw how even thought their definition may
have been a little different they still shared some commonalities. I was reminded how even in our own culture we
can sometimes be seen as outsiders. Sometimes
our experiences mold how we feel about what words mean. The teenager Mo, also reminded me that it is
never too early to teach the younger generation about the importance of
acceptance of others no matter their beliefs or definition of culture and
diversity.